talon_tx: (greenman fall)
2010-09-17 09:27 am

just thinking

So, been reading and researching and talking with others about Poly, I am still not sure. But I am closer then I ever have been. I think I am dealing with workable rules or guideline vs making it up as you go along. I am thinking the deal breaker is going to be STD/AID testing for all involved and safe sex (condoms, dental dams, etc) for all involved. I can see no other way for multiple partners, for monogamous couples yes. I have been fluid bonded before, nice situation for not only sex but with edge play(cutting, needles, blood play) but that was with one partner only. Anyway,
I guess it's back to the books, so to speak.

Oh, btw, Fall has come early :)
talon_tx: (Default)
2010-09-14 08:26 pm

suggestions ?

Does anyone have any suggestions for books on polyamory ?
I have the Ethical Slut.
talon_tx: (Default)
2010-09-13 07:48 am

morning musings

So, I love Albris Books, I bought a copy of The Ethical Slut. I have read it before but loaned it out and never got it back. I am a bit tired today, have not totally recovered from Saturday. I have work tonight, the start of my long 4 day schedule (I do 12hour shifts). Right now I am doing laundry and then sleep. Oh, I also picked up from Albris another book I lost somewhere, Anno Dracula, a alternative history story.
I hope everyone has a great day.
talon_tx: (Default)
2010-09-12 10:29 pm

reevaluate

I am reevaluating my views about polyamory, I have been burned on it before but looking back it may not have been a well thought out relationship. I am seeing a person now who I really like and we have a connection that is unbelievable. But, she has been burned by monogamy before and has a couple other sexual relationships. Can an old dog learn new tricks? I have no idea but I am going to start looking at poly again. My first thing to do is re-read the Ethical Slut.
I am too tired to think about this right now, but I will be using this forum to work it out.

night all
talon_tx: (Default)
2010-09-10 08:37 am

testing

test test lalalalalalala
talon_tx: (Default)
2010-09-09 07:07 pm

New Journal

lalalala, just testing this out with no one here.